I recently spent part of my day emailing with a potential client on giving her wedding advice & tid-bits. From it, I got inspired to share my personal wedding style with you. Fresh off the wedding circuit myself, I retained a load of knowledge from my personal experience. I hope to share all of it over time in this blog-site.
So today’s topic of discussion is “What is your wedding style?” I think when you’re a newly engaged bride-to-be, the idea of where to start is OVERWHELMING!! Even for the brides who know what they already want. The choices & options are endless. There’s a whole industry dedicated to this funny business. It’s practically a circus act at times.
So, where to begin? My most important advice for starting out is to figure out your relationship’s personal style. There’s nothing worse than to cut & paste from another wedding that you’ve seen. If you’ve always dreamed of a circus themed wedding, then by all means, work your magic and go with what represents you as a couple. One thing I will emphasize over and over throughout this blog is PERSONAL STYLE.
A wonderful idea that I highly recommend is to create an “Inspiration Board.” I used to do this all the time back in my young “assistant designer” days. This can be a collage of images, swatches, paint chips & magazine rips of images that inspire you. Putting a board together helps to give you a cohesive image of your wedding. Having something visual goes a long way especially when you’re dealing with vendors who need to execute your vision. Even for a multi-tasking do-it-all like myself, I was still limited to what I could do on my big day (though I was still nailing mirrors to trees the morning of my own wedding….but I’ll save that for another post).
Having an inspiration board also helps an indecisive person like myself stick to a concrete idea. Every day I had a new idea and a new direction I wanted to go in. I used to joke about wishing I could have 5 different weddings with the same man so I could execute all the different wedding styles I loved.
**All images above were taken by me on my own wedding day.
So what did we end up going with for our personal wedding style you wonder? Since we got married on a private vineyard estate (on the bluff overlooking the water with access to a private beach…umm..yeah, pretty nice): We went with the concept of ”Town & Country“. It’s the idea of bringing our love for upscale elegance brought out doors and made casually tangible. It’s the love of crystal chandeliers mixed with burlap details, velvet chairs with metal lanterns set against the backdrop of the water’s edge. It’s the juxtaposition of both my husband & my love for the city & the country.
Here is my inspiration board: **Note: images in the board below are not original to Style Art Life and are a compilation of other photographers.
If you haven’t already noticed, I identified so much with my wedding style & color scheme, I carried that same look into Style Art Life!
Recently, my husband & I got snowed in together during one of New York’s big snowstorms. With both of us working from home and not wanting to venture out into the blistering cold, I had to get creative with our lunch plan. From searching my fridge & cabinet, I gathered enough makeshift ingredients to make a hot open-face gourmet sandwich which I now call the “Storm Sandwich!” It was an unitentional variation on the french sandwich called the Croque Madame
. I’ve made this twice with varying ingredients since the two snow storms.
Just thought I’d share to inspire some scrounging in your own kitchen for a creative way to use simple ingredients to make something gourmet!
Though I must admit, I am a bit of a high maintenance person…ok…a lot high maintenance, so truffle oil & fresh basil may not be normal ingredients in most people’s pantry. But I hope this will inspire some to know that tiny luxuries, even if it’s a really great olive oil, can make that food life in your kitchen a little extra special.
Sometimes, using something as nice as free range farm eggs is what makes the difference in an egg sandwich. We love the eggs from Egg Innovations. It truly tastes like fresh eggs straight from the farm, packed with real flavor.
The sandwich is about to meet its death as my husband is about to stop working in the background and devour this hot mess.
The best part about this sandwich is the ooze that is then sopped up with bread!
On another day, we had some great brick oven hard bread that also makes for a great storm sandwich!
While in Maine, I met Jeff Lauzier (owner of Loyal Citizens Clothing
see previous post) who runs the Joseph of Portland
men’s boutique on Fore Street. Both my husband & I were impress with what Jeff offered at the boutique as well as his t-shirt designs. A great conversation on style led to a photoshoot which led to a follow up interview.
There are tons of style insight from Jeff who I consider to be a part of a new emerging group of men, like my husband as well, who are still manly men at heart, but also understand the need for a groomed look as representation of who they are…so dwindling are the days of the metro-sexuals who are more prim than their woman and hopefully if you’re a manly men, you’ll be inspired to man up and dress out…to your personal style that is.
Interview: Jeff Lauzier from Joseph of Portland Men’s Boutique
In regards to managing and buying for Josephs’ of Portland, you have an excellent edited selection of items covering all basis, age group (17 – 70 yrs old) and lifestyle. Each season when you look into new items for the store, what is your thought process in covering such a wide demographic?
- I learned a lesson a long time ago: buy for your client and not yourself. We are in a very diverse city. We have 18 year olds that buy tees and jeans, 40 year olds that buy suits and 80 year olds who buy sweaters and pants. We do not have a narrowed focus because of that. We need to appeal to most but be selective enough to differentiate us from our competition. Everything we carry has been hand selected by our buying team with all clients in mind. The result is a store that is conservatively stylish yet edgy enough to be different.
Any advice for the woman who want to help improve their man’s wardrobe?
- Women!, you know what you want to see on your man. Let him know or let us know what you want to see and it will be done. Most guys want your input. That is why they trust us (the staff) and the women in their lives. We are vain also. Tell us we look good and we will wear what you buy us. After all, YOU have to look at us.
What are some must-have key items for the men out there this season to refresh their wardrobe?
- Spring 2011 is going to be colorful. Gone are the days of basic colors. Look for brighter cotton pants. Khakis are boring. You are going to see a ton of light blue, yellow, pink and green shades of pants. Embrace them. Here in the North East guys have about three months of “summer.” Have fun in that short span. Also look out for brightly colored gingham shirts. A return to a more natural fit is starting this spring. Fitted is always stylish…tight is out …oversized never looks good on anyone.**Note from StyleArtLife: Couldn’t agree more with all that Jeff just mentioned. Plus, Jeff & staff really know what they are talking about. My husband has been searching all over Manhattan for months for a particular gingham plaid shirt in a particular color & fit…who knew we had to drive to Portland, Maine to find it at Joseph’s of Portland. They also had a sick snakeskin belt that both my husband & I went nuts over.
What can shoppers expect to see in Joseph’s of Portland for the Spring Season?
- The Americana look is huge again this spring. Basic chambray shirts, oxfords, buck shoes, denim and cotton pants are what you’ll find on our shelves…and really cool tees.
What are some recommendations for an awesome Portland, Maine Experience:
- An awesome Portland experience: breakfast at the Porthole, a tour of Casco Bay on a lobster boat, the Portland Museum of Art, lunch at Walter’s, shopping in the Old port, a Chamberlain Ale at Shipyard Brewing, A walk on the promenade, dinner at FiveFifty-Five and local music at Port City Music Hall. Portland is such an eclectic town. There is something for everyone here. The food is amazing, the music is top notch and culture is uniquely New England. And most importantly, the people are real AND friendly…no bullshit here just honest hard working people.
I had the opportunity to interview Jeff Lauzier, owner & designer (along with Julian Redman) of Loyal Citizens Clothing . When I first met Jeff, I was impressed with the breadth of knowledge he had for style and what was current. On tomorrow’s post he’ll give men insight into what to wear this coming season and how the woman can help their men step up their game in the wardrobe department.
Loyal Citizen Clothing
What made you want to start a T-shirt company?
- I have been in the upscale men’s clothing business for over a decade, and in that time I’ve seen the trend go from a very formal work environment to a more casual one. In that change, a pair of jeans became a staple in the wardrobe. We started carrying jeans in the store [Joseph of Portland which Jeff runs], but never had tees that had a message. [Loyal Citizens Clothing] LCC tees definitely have a message but aren’t so outspoken as to limit the wearability. I have always been an artist at heart so when it came to creating something that would match my store and mission…it was an easy and fulfilling leap.
Explain to readers the concept of your company
- LCC (Loyal Citizen Clothing) is just that a loyal company that designs, produces, and prints within the USA. Our tees are made here, the inks we used are made here, and all of our tees/hoodies/bags are printed by hand in Maine. My Mom was a shoe maker for 30 years and when that industry left the U.S., she had a skill that was no longer needed or applicable. I promise that will never happen with LCC.
What inspirations/plans/ideas do you have in the works for this coming season?
- Julian and I are focusing on the idea of flight for our spring/summer 2011 campaign. We have always been fascinated by the idea and want to convey that in print. Of course we will always have our “Maine” collection which features prominent Maine historical figures and symbols of our great state.
Being a historical buff with tees that have a lot of historical New England refrences, what historical figure has influenced you the most?
- Joshua Chamberlain has been my biggest inspiration. He left a high profile job as a professor to serve in the union army and defend his country. He spoke 7 languages fluently, was an amazing leader of men, understood the importance of a liberal arts education, helped young women excel in math and sciences, was a man of God, governor of Maine, and a pillar of the community. He was what we should all strive to be.
**Style Art Life Note: Jeff is wearing his own LCC design of Joshua Chamberlain in this shoot.
Your designs have a fine-art appeal packed with brains yet are really street cool. Are there plans to branch into a woman’s line of t-shirts?
- We do plan on launching a women’s line this spring. It will be a lot of the same designs just on women’s tees. We are also working on a line called Be Your Own Goddess….but that is still in the works.
**Style Art Life Note: Uuuummmm….as a woman, I’m super psyched about this. You can expect an image of me in one of the tees down the line!
**Images below are courtesy of Loyal Citizen Clothing, yet edited & color corrected by StyleArtLife for cohesiveness.
And now, it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t ask some of my favorite personal questions:
What do you do in your free time?
- I don’t have much free time. When I do have time, every second I have is devoted to spending time with my wife and daughter. I love golf, photography and working on vintage American Muscle cars…in the shop now is a 1935 Buick Humpback streetrod!
What was your big dream as a child?
- My dream as a child was to design cars for Dodge. My Dad is a mechanic and I grew up in the garage. I have always had a passion of cars and wanted to design them. I thought about going to General Motors Institute but never did. I still like to get dirty and work on my own cars or help out at the garage once in a while. It is therapeutic for me.
Where do you see yourself in 20 years?
- I see myself working harder than ever in 20 years. My daughter will be 22 and I’ll have to work on my menacing stare. I’m very protective of her. I hope to be playing more golf, polishing a fleet of muscle cars and enjoying life. We only go around once…live while you’re here.
What does the Art of Living a Styled life mean to you?
- The Art of Living a Styled Life to me means being who you are with no pretense. When it comes down to it, people either like you or dislike you based on you. But remember that your appearance is part of you. When you look good, you feel good. Your clothing and general appearance should be an accompaniment to you, and not who you ARE. Many people don’t have a firm grasp on that concept. Style can be a ratty tee, a faded pair of jeans or a bespoke suit…everything has a time and place…and style.
**StyleAtLife Note: And just that last answer alone is what this site is all about!
I was more than honored when my very near & dear friend, Darlene (+Alonzo), asked if I would shoot their engagement pictures.
On the day of the shoot, we were limited on time but managed to have a ton of fun while I captured the pure moments between them.
Like most men who have been “persuaded” to do these engagement shoots, they are usually hesitant, nervous, stiff and just awkward. Alonzo was adorably shy to start…But once we got going, he became a superstar. It is so important to click with your photographer. A good photographer should be able to make you feel comfortable and help direct you to bring out the true essence of the relationship.
The relationship between Darlene & Alonzo is full of contentment, respect, sweetness and jam packed with all-around sillyness. Alonzo knows how to make Darlene smile just right and feel like she’ll always be safe in his arms. It took a while for these two to finally meet after having years of mutual friends…it’s as if time needed to align the stars and now there’s a whole galaxy waiting for them!
There were so many special moments captured that I am saving for Darlene+Alonzo’s eyes only. Click on the image below to see a short slideshow edit of some of my personal favorites.
Shoes say so much about a person & their current state of mind whether they realize it or not. Are you a practical person? You’re probably mostly wearing flats through the day. If you prefer comfort over appearance, you’re definitely in gym sneakers. If you’re into wing tips like my husband, I’m going to guess you have an old school charm about you. If you’re obsessed with snakeskin like me….well…then you definitely are not shy to flaunt.
I love shoes in every shape, size & color. How boring would it be if everyone wore the same shoes and had the same personality. Living a life with your own style, flair and shoe choice is what makes the Art of Life so Stylish!
Below is this past year’s compilation of my eyes on shoes. A few extra will be posted on www.facebook.com/styleartlife in a few days. If you haven’t already, come on over and be a fan to get the latest postings, news, insight and special offers I may have down the line.
Happy New Year 2011! So my husband & I came up with a last minute New Years plan to ride some fresh powder on the slopes of Vermont. But because it was so last minute, all the nice B&Bs & mountain-side resorts were fully booked….
An article in GQ mentioned Portland, Maine’s significant food culture, which was enough to sway our road trip in that direction instead. So we drove the scenic route from NY up along the coast of New England, randomly staying overnight in Salem (our reasoning: because we’ve never been & the city is steeped in history) before ending the route in Portland.
Scroll to the bottom of this post for some recommendations on where to eat! Surprisingly, no food pictures were taken…I was busy eating!
Why my husband is awesome: We were driving along the coast and I made a simple comment on how beautiful the overcast lighting was (with a slight beam of sun shining through the grey clouds) & how perfect it was for pictures. He immediately found a spot to pull over and suggested we take some pictures! He’s my number one biggest supporter of this photography passion.
Salem, Mass | Places to Dine:
(excellent quality food w/excellent service)
Portland, Maine | Places To Dine:
FiveFifty-Five ~ decor & location leaves a lot to be desired, but the food sure doesn’t. Excellent quality food & service. Truffle Mac & Cheese has shaved truffles in it! http://fivefifty-five.com/
Fore Street ~ A super cool warehouse loft space, tastefully decorated with a rustic meets industrial feel. We grabbed drinks & dessert here after our FiveFifty-Five dinner. The next morning, highly recommend going to their Baking Company behind the restaurant for a morning sticky bun! http://www.forestreet.biz/
The Farmer’s Table
From talking to a few local foodies, here are additional recommendations of places they would eat (and not what the tourist books may suggests):
http://paciarino.com/ (Rustic countryside Italian)
Portland, Maine | Shops:
Rebelais ~ A cookbook shop with some pretty cool edited selections for all the foodies out there!
Joseph’s of Portland ~ A great edit of men’s clothes, super cool & rustic and for the age range of 17 – 70. Stay tune for a Fashion Friday feature on the buyer & T-shirt designer.
Wow, 2010 has came to an end. It’s the end of the first decade of the millenium. Amazing how quickly time flies. So much has happened for me this year, from getting married to becoming an aunt to kickstarting a long-time passion into a legit business. So excited for 2011 and the plans and ideas I have for Style Art Life. I am grateful for the group following this blog-site so far. I hope you stick with me as I promise “the best is yet to come” and I hope you continue to refer me whenever a photography opportunity arises. Thank you for your support and however you end this year, make sure you end it in STYLE (your personal style that is…after all, that is what true style is all about!)